Monday, November 5, 2007
Ever think of what does love means in boy-girl relationship? What does it mean to you? Will it give you happines through out your life? For me, its a no. In my opinion, love in b-g relationship will not only make us happy, but also make us sad and all sort other feelings.
Me and Nisa had gone through up and down, low and high. We fought and quarrel like no World but when we think back, fighting or quarelling will help us understand more to each other. For me, quarelling and fighting doesn't mean that bg relationship would end. Its a no-no for me. It's depends on ourself and its our responsiblity and decision to end the relationship or not. Never use a problem as a reason to end this relationship UNLESS if you find out that your gf or bf backstab behind you for an example, scandal , for me, its an auto-break. But Alhamdulillah, me and Nisa are fine now. I won't betray her. I won't backstab her. Its like, I don't have the feeling to betray her but i have the feeling to love and sincere to her. For me, looks are just like a cover of a book.
For an example, you buy a book with presentable cover and its look nice. Than, when you read the book, the content sucks and the story-line are full of shits. Than u feel hurt because you wasted your money buying on it. Try to relate this example in relationship or before relationship, you know someone, he's so damn hot, u impress by his look, than both of you get to know each other, but day by day, it turns out to be your nightmare, she/he a playboy, a timer and always lie. Than u feel so hurt and wasted your time knowing him and you in the end, you never get happiness but dissapointment. And what's the result when u get hurt? you will blame the guys/girls that all guys/girls are the same and whatever bullshits. Blame yourself for choosing that guy without knowing him well..
And other thing is that, please stop using this reason "kita takda jodoh lagi" "jodoh di tangan Tuhan". Yup its damn right, jodoh di tangan Tuhan. But for some group of people, they keep using that reason so they can left their gf/bf easily. Please people, jangan mengunakkan nama Tuhan untuk menipu orang atau meninggalkan seseorang dengan SENGAJA. Tidak baik. Faham? Don't leave your love ones purposely by using Tuhan..
So people, always remember the consequences when finding a guy or girl blindly because when you face the consequences, it will affect your life. Don't ever think that having a bg relationship is like a dreamland or whatever shit you call it. Remember, love is still in our World and we live in REALITY world and not a dreamworld where everthing is perfect. Nothing is perfect in this love, even with love. Its all depends on ourself. I hope some people agree with me because I'm just stating my opinion about girl-boy relationship. So I hope this post may "sedar" or "motivate" some people because this things use our common sense.
People keep asking me the same question again and again. How come a person like me who is fugging ugly have a beautiful girl? Let me answer this question with specific reason.
Firstly, I got to know my girl from cyber and initially, i impressed her. She impress the way i treat her and the way i talk to her. Its because she impress with my heart and not my look. Its our HEART people that can help us to kekal in relationship. Appearance will never last but our heart do. & seriously, i don't even have a gf before in a same school except for one bitch who left me, but who cares. Overall, i love my Nisa dengan sepenuh hatiku..
I just hope whoever in bg relationship now, please, don't ever betray your love ones, love her/him with full heart and sincerity. It's no use having a relationship for 1-2 years but end up seperate, its a waste of time isn't it?
pss syg, 10 more days to our 3rd month, isn't it?
